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o6.25.1o MARV & CASH
...the day the world changes...

It's easy; hard as it looks!

Guess who's back!!!!

Hello again! Fellow bloggers, mothers & fathers, sisters & brothers, friends, and haters! Priests and hookers! It has been centuries since my last update, can only mean ONE thing; I have alot to share with yall! I dont even know where to start!!

THE PHSYICAL: Well folks, I have yet again changed the roots of my brain (aka my hair). At first I went from blonde to a "bronze" color. Coincidence much? I think NOT! haha Now it's a medium brown color, and I've added bangs for a more "sophisticated" look. I'll have to post pictures for yall to get the full visual affect =] My abnormal 5'11 112lbs 34B (or C depending on the store) has stayed the same, kinda. Ive been hittin the gym more often, making sure my figure doesn't turn into a BIG CIRCLE bahaha! Went on a vacation to the Bahamas ..and came back to the United States of America ..blacker then the homies =D haha

THE EDUCATION: Ladies and dudes, you're lookin at the most recent graduate from FIDM! Hahaha, doing my victory dance as I'm writing!! Alot of ppl, after graduation dont really know what to do with a piece of paper that is a representation of the thousands of $$ that you spent while trying to get good grades in order to graduate, in order to get a decent job, in order to pay for the debt that arrives in your mailbox every month... FML. No really ...FUCK MY LIFE. I think I've been fortunate enough to work on my master "after graduation" plan before I even came close to wearing the cap and gown. Yall will see what I'm talking about sooooon =]

THE LOVE LIFE: ... <--- (single)

THE "AGENT OF CHANGE": It has all taken a turn, for the gooood! Progressing and blossoming into something fanFUCKINGtastic. Pictures to come!!!

umm ..anything else to update on? Questions? Comments? Hate mail? Let me know =]
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The 10 Dating TRUTHS

Truth #1
You'll regret that "Just wanted to make sure you got my last message" follow-up to an e-mail, text, or voicemail.

Truth #2
If you don't feel comfortable having a conversation with a guy about sex — especially condoms — you shouldn't be getting busy with him.

Truth #3
If a man breaks up with you out of the blue, the out-of-the-blue part is really only on your end.

Truth #4
Just as it's best to wait to drop the L-bomb until your man does, let a guy change his Facebook status to "in a relationship" before you do.

Truth #5
No woman in a healthy long-term relationship has ever said, "Gee, I really wish I'd slept with my man sooner."

Truth #6
Keeping a change of clothes at work in case of an emergency walk of shame isn't optimistic behavior...it's career-savvy.

Truth #7
When a guy repeatedly refers to his exes as "crazy," "psycho," or "sluts," he will use those same words against you one day.

Truth #8
If a relationship feels like too much work after the first month, it'll be 10 times harder a year from now.

Truth #9
A guy who rates you or other girls as a number from 1 to 10 is a loser, even if he gives you a 10. You're a woman, not county fair livestock.

Truth #10
A guy who talks about how skilled he is in the sack is like a man who brags about his money. Either way, he ain't got it. The kind of man you want to be with knows that actions speak louder than words. And thankfully, there are plenty of those types out there!

Agent Of Change

"I wanna go simple ....nothing too CRAZY ..but a little funk ...to make the consumer want to buy my product ..and not just stick with the status quo"

After several years of daydreaming and visualizing ...I can finally touch, and grasp my ideas, drawings, and VISIONS! Already, it feels like such a big accomplishment, when in reality ..this is only the start!

For those who are "out of the loop," I have recently started planning for a clothing/accessories line called "Agent Of Change." I'm off to a great start with investors interested in my venture, approximately 25 drawings ready to be transformed into tangible CLOTHES, and many pieces of jewelry (which I will post pictures of at the end of the blog).

It's also my last year at FIDM, and I'll be graduating in spring 2010. With the new year fast approaching, I see some really GREAT things happening, and also preparing myself for the unexpected! ..prepare for the worst, but expect the BEST! =]

Once I get my clothing designs, I will be looking for models, locations, hair/make up artists, photographers, etc. for the preparation of the LOOKBOOK! If you're interested in helping out, let me know!!!

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Nice Guys Finish Last?

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girls every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.

This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once theyre at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow dont end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.

This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldnt worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best drive you have ever had while playing Madden to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didnt have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing serious between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: oh, but were just friends! And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because youre nice like that.

The nice guys dont often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys dont seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I cant. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as oh, hes too nice to date or he would be a good boyfriend but hes not for me or he already puts up with so much from me, I couldnt possibly ask him out! Or the most frustrating of all: no, it would ruin our friendship. Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I cant figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (Im going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesnt last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.

So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know youre sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.

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Enough

You ready?
Yes.
Can you lose?
No.
Can he hurt you?
No.
Even though hes bigger?
Hes a lot bigger.
Even though hes stronger?
Hes a lot stronger.
So if he hits you?
No way, it takes twice as much energy to swing and miss, as to swing and hit.
So how do you win?
I attack.
And what do you do after you attack?
Nothing, because I never stop attacking.

...Slacking!!

Okay, I know, I'm totally slacking on my posts! I just wonder if anyone even reads these! So since the last time I've posted, lots has happened. Yes, I'm quite shocked myself ...because normally my life is uneventful.

• It is my last year at FIDM, sadly. It was a wonderful four years at the school, and now I'm definitely ready to graduate and move on to bigger and better things. There are a few things going through my mind such as whether or not I should relocate, what exactly I wanna do with an A.A. (Associate of Arts) degree in Merchandise Marketing and a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Management. I also am considering opening up a small boutique with a business partner who happens to be a fashion designer, or start off working for a designer in order to learn from them, then eventually branch off on my own. I really have a lot to consider, and it's a lot of stress!! THIS IS MY FUTURE!!
  
• I recently got some awesome news that a friend of mine back in Georgia has landed a potential contract with Elite Model Management! I'm really excited for her, shes a beautiful sweet girl! She kept telling me that I should consider auditioning (is that even the right word to use haha), yet I don't think "modeling" is something that really suits me. Yes, if you know me, you KNOW I love taking photos. Everyday life and funny goofy facial expressions. Getting all dolled up and having a photographer tell me to look one way and position myself another way ....no thank you! I admire and appreciate models, but modeling is just not for Kris =]
• I went to the Atlanta Falcons & San Francisco 49ers game! GOO FALCONS!
  
• I will admit, I have really bad road rage, and I seemed to have been getting very aggravated with this LA traffic! I swear ..if you can't drive, get off the damn road!
• Came across this quote on Twitter from my wonderful FRIEND @EFF_Boy... hit up his blog, its way better then mine LOL What's the De-Gaga?
  

  "Those who criticize our generation forget who raised it"
  

I was up at 4am this morning, dear lord! I am definitely tired, so with that being said ...back to my comfy bed! Blogging rocks. Blogging rules the world! haha
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